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Samiat Sunmola's avatar

This is so beautifully written. Again I think the patrichial system encouraged this. A bold confident, "I know I am" boy is a gem while a girl posessing these characteristics is doing too much, proud. A girl should be shy, naive and "unaware of her beauty" or at least pretend not to be aware to get be attractive.

It is what it is 🙂

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Kanayo Uzo's avatar

Remarkable✨

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Olasubomi Oduntan's avatar

thank you

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Lewis Campfield's avatar

Perhaps everyone, female or male, is aware of their own beauty, or lack thereof. Maybe women are smart, and only chose to reveal that beauty at an opportune time and to the right person. In this day and age there are ways to enhance your looks, no one needs to look ugly. Beauty is another tool in the social jousting that constantly goes on. Great article, thank you.

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Moradebuewaoluwa's avatar

Found this very truee.

Happy belated birthday, btw💐🎉

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